Feeling Alone at 35: When Things Feel Different...

When you're 35, sometimes you might feel a bit alone, even when you're surrounded by people. It's like there's a quiet feeling inside, a feeling that things aren't the same as they used to be.

At this age, some friends might be busy with their families, taking care of kids, or busy with their jobs. It can make you feel like you're on your own path while everyone else is on a different one.

Work can also play a big part in this feeling. Maybe you're working hard and doing your best, but it feels like something's missing. You might wish for a job that makes you feel more excited or gives you a sense of accomplishment.

And then there's the idea of finding someone special. You might see lots of people around you settling down, getting married, or having families. Sometimes, it can make you wonder if you're on the right track or if you're missing out on something important.

It's okay to feel this way. Lots of people feel lonely sometimes, and it's okay to talk about it. Sharing how you feel with someone you trust can really help. Even though it might seem like everyone else is on a different path, there are others who might feel the same way you do.

But being 35 and feeling alone doesn’t mean you'll always feel this way. It’s a chance to discover more about yourself, to try new things, and find what truly makes you happy. Maybe it's picking up a new hobby, joining groups with similar interests, or even just taking time to appreciate the things you enjoy.

Even when it feels like things are different, remember that there are always new opportunities ahead. Sometimes, being a little alone gives you the chance to figure out what you really want and what makes you truly happy. And who knows, along the way, you might meet new friends or even someone special who walks a similar path as you.

When Someone Very Special Goes Away: Feeling Really, Really Sad...

Losing someone you love a whole lot is one of the hardest things ever. It's like a big, heavy feeling in your heart that won't go away. It's feeling like a big part of your life is missing.

At first, it might feel like it's not real, like a big dream you're waiting to wake up from. You might wish so much that things could go back to the way they were.

But then, every day, it hits you again and again. Little things, like a song you both liked or a place you used to go together, make you miss them even more. It's like a sad movie playing in your head, showing all the good times you had together.

Sometimes, it feels like you can't breathe, like something heavy is sitting on your chest. You might feel really, really upset, or maybe even mad that they're not here anymore.

Every day can be tough. You might feel like you're on a rollercoaster of feelings—happy memories one moment, and then feeling really down the next. Tears might show up without warning, and that's okay.

It's okay to talk about how you're feeling. Sharing your feelings with someone you trust can help a lot. It might not feel like it now, but little by little, the hurt might start to feel a bit lighter.

It's important to give yourself time to feel sad and miss them. Healing takes time, and it's different for everyone. Even when it feels like the sadness won't ever go away, remember that you're strong and brave for feeling your feelings.

Though the pain might stay for a while, it doesn’t mean you'll always feel this sad. With time, those memories will become something special that you'll cherish in your heart forever. And even though they're not here, the love you shared will always be a part of who you are.